Lifes too short too be mad....

Thats what I want to tell my sister, but since she hasn't called me or talked to me in a week, I haven't told her yet. It upsets me that she is sorta like my dad, and they can go weeks without talking to some one who is suppose to be special to them. She is mad over something so silly, and has made lies about it. I called her last weekend to tell her I was coming to her house, b/c I had to pick up some stuff from a store where she lives. I also told her that Big J was coming with me, which she does not like him, they do not get along at all. So she was being bitchy and saying how she didn't want him to come to her house. Well I ended up just going to my dad's instead, which is only 5 mins from her house. I called her to tell her I was there, so come and see us, b/c Big J was in town getting the stuff we needed. Well she got mad at me, told me I lied, and then hung up on me, and would not answer when I called back. So yes, I'm upset, but No I'm not calling her and kissing her ass like she wants. She is 3 years older than me and thinks she knows whats best for me and my son. I respect her advice, but if she would just give me advice instead of telling me what I should be doing, and how I should do it b/c she did it this way, I wouldn't mind. I do love my sister a lot, and I should point that out, I would do anything for her. Just like I helped raise her daughter and take care of her DH when He got paralzed from the waist down. I had no problem being there for them, and I still am there for them. She just hasnt' held up her end of the deal with helping me out, and that is fine, I'm really ok with that. I'm not ok with her getting mad at me all the time, she just started doing this after I had the baby. Its the weirdest thing ever.....I have no idea what the deal is. So this week, I came across a blog of a woman whose sister and husband was in a horrible private plan crazy, they have horrible burns, and are up and down each day. I've followed the blog and have been touched by how much this sister is doing for her sister that is in the hospital. It gives me hope. It also makes me think that life is really too short to be mad all the time or mad over stupid things. Why not just go on, b/c you never know what tomorrow is going to bring. I will post a link to the blog if anyone is interested. I'm so surpised and touched that I came across the blog this week. It really has me thinking about life, and I've held little J tighter and closer this week, just b/c you never know.
So I wish I was better at blogging than what I am, I feel like I don't have anything to post about everyday, but I sit her and try to think of things to write about. I do have a lot going on right now, but I don't want my blog to always be full of stress or drama.