Its sad, but true! My relationship is slowly going down hill. Its breaking my heart, but I am trying to fix it, but it has to go both ways, and at this point, I'm the only one trying. I'm pissed that it has turned into this. I mean we haven't slept in the same bed since little J was born. Even when he was in his own room, Big J still did not sleep with me. I just find that to be odd. Why would you not want to sleep with your fiance. He says that little J makes to much noise...well I think that is bullshit! I mean we have been together 7 years. Engaged for 3. And its sad our relationship is not doing good. We def. fight more then we use to, and there is a lot of tension. It might have to do with the fact that he hasn't hugged or kissed me in almost over a month. I know sad right...well I was the only one who was showing affection, so I decided to stop and just see if how long it would take him to give me a hug and kiss. Well honestly I can't even remember the last time. I'm just so hurt, and really I just dont' know what to do. I've really been thinking about leaving. But I dont' know if that is the right thing to do. I'm so confused, and just really not sure what to do. But at this point, I'm ready to give up.
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1 year ago
7 comments:
I'm so sorry Tasha. I don't know what else to say, except I hope you find some happiness, however that may be.
My heart hurts for you!!!
You deserve to be showered with affection and love.
Is there a chance that counseling might help. At least it will help shed some carity on what you should do.
I wish I lived near you. I would have you over for tea and tears or wine and whinning.
I am so sorry you are dealing with this tasha.
Life is way to short to stay with someone who doesn't give you the respect and show you the affection that you deserve. I know that is more easily said then done especially taking Johnathan into consideration, but think about it do you want Johnathon treating his wife like that? You want to show him great examples of love! If you need anything I m here for you!
I am so sorry you have to deal with that Tasha!! I think it would be best if you left...maybe then it would knock some since in that boys head!! What would he do without you!!
Have you told him how you feel? Have you brought it to his attention that he is treating you this way? If you have and he is still ignoring your needs then he does not deserve you.
To be honest I think it would be worse on little J for you two to stay together and there be no love shown than for you to split and both be happy..kwim? I know it will be hard but you have to think of yourself and little J...what is best for the two of you.
I am always here if you need to talk (hugs)
All I can say is I never thought my relationship would get so complicated with Tom, but it did, and it happened when we had a baby. Babies change everything.
The important thing is to remain open, communicate, and tell him everything you told us on this blog! Hope it gets better, girl!
Hang in there!
Just checking in to tell you I'm thinking about you.1
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Thanks so much ladies!! I just love you guys. I've tried talking to him, but he loves to keep all his feeling bottled up, so that doesn't help much. I will update soon!!
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